No, not that kind of flexible (which being a middle-aged man, I’m not). I’m talking about the kind of flexible where you don’t get overly fixated on one particular plan. In other words, the ability to go with the flow. And to do it without actually being directionless. I happen to be someone who doesn’t usually freak out when plans change. And when it comes to my love life, I actually embrace it. I find that it means more adventure, more intimacy, more intensity, more variety, and an ever better connection with my lover. Maybe another way to put it is that I keep my eye on the long term. There are an infinite number of paths to get there, all with their own joys and pleasures. And I don’t care which path is explored on any given day. I’m always moving to where I want to be, and taking in those joys and pleasures along the way.
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