Anyone who has read my blog knows I enjoy just about all forms of sex play. Ok, maybe truely all but then there are still things I haven't tried and I have to believe there will be something I don't like. Even if you aren't quite as adventurous as I, the fact that you read my blog suggests you are a little adventurous. And though you enjoy more than more thing, you probably have a favorite way to cum.
Judging from the number of guys who seek out oral sex (including "Cum in Mouth" and women who swallow), and their frustration with sex partners who aren't into fellatio, it sure seems that would win in a poll. Well, not for me. I love oral as part of play. I mean, really love it. But it is my least favorite way to cum. The former I attribute not just to oral feeling good, but to how exciting it is to see a woman really get into it. But the cum part? Yes, it it really exciting when you know they want your cum in their mouth, and if they swallow it that is just such an exquisite compliment. I just find my orgasms aren't as intense from oral as from other activities. So yes, suck me, suck my balls, and if you really want to eat my cum then by all means suck me to completion. I will completely enjoy it, just understand that it won't leave my brain splattered on the ceiling.
So what about intercourse? Now this is a complex subject. A very complex subject actually. If I'm having intercourse with someone I love and am in a long-term relationship with cumming during intercourse is the most special, intimate, and satisfying thing in life. With anyone else? I enjoy fucking but again it is not my favorite way to cum. There is the psychology part to this, and there is the physical part. The psychology part should be obvious, with someone else it just is lacking the intimacy. The physical part is that my orgasms from intercourse rarely leave my brain splattered on the ceiling. And they never do unless it is my lover.
So then, what is my favorite way to cum? It is a hand-job. Not a simple old fashioned hand-job, but one involving some tease and denial. I LOVE it when my lover takes me to just before the point of no return then backs off for a bit, then does it again, and again, and again. Isn't that frustrating you ask? Immensely so. And I imagine that at age 18 I would have wanted to kill a woman for doing that to me. But in my 50s I usually mumble something under my breath, put a grin on my face, internalize that a little frustration means a big reward is coming, and (if it is my lover) sit up and give her a passionate kiss while she continues stroking me. Because when I cum it is BIG. It is the brain splattering on the ceiling. It is the momentary blackout. It is the cum that either never stops flowing, or that shoots over my head. It is amazing. And so it is my favorite way to cum.
Of course, I like variety and would never want to cum just one way all the time. But I really do love tease and denial, and ultimately release.
